force of nature
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Buffalo Roam
I have a thing for buffalo. Growing up, my mom would take my sister and me to a swimming pool at a park about 15 minutes from our house. That 15-minute drive always seemed like the longest drive ever, sitting in our bathing suits in the backseat, anticipating the smell of chlorine, zinc oxide, and the snack shop burgers and fries . . . the burn of the white concrete on our feet before jumping into the shallow end . . . the peaceful, magical feeling of being underwater, surrounded by people and yet oddly alone. About two minutes from the pool, we'd round a long curve in the road and pass a farm where buffalo lived. If we were lucky, there'd be one or two hanging out, grazing, standing on their inordinately small legs on the side of the hill. We'd gaze in awe at their girth, and at some point we started celebrating seeing them by singing a little two-word tune: "Buff-a-lo roooooaaaam!"
Years later, when it was time for me to go to college, I chose to head two hours north on the main interstate between Alabama and Tennessee. As I drove my old Ford Taurus up that interstate for college orientation, I noticed a farm on the side of the road about 45 minutes away from the city. Arranged on the grassy hills were a classic two-story farmhouse, a barn, a silo, some fences, and... buffalo. Four or five buffalo! I couldn't help but sing quietly, "Buff-a-lo roooooaaaam . . ." Those giant frizzy beasts had no way of knowing it, but they were reminding me that I was on the right road. Headed toward something good and exciting. I might come away a little tired and sunburned, but I'd have some great memories to look back on.
To this day, when I see buffalo in person or in one of these big photos or paintings, I can't help but sing in my head, "Buff-a-lo rooooaaam!" and smile.
Thursday, May 02, 2013
The Only One
The only one you need in your life is that person who shows you he needs you in his.
—Oscar Wilde
source: online counseling college
—Oscar Wilde
source: online counseling college
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Multiple Choice
And you are worth the time it takes to take the time to get
to know you. We’ve managed to muddle through the awkward stage of I like you
and you like me, but when we both finally said ‘yes,’ life became a multiple
choice test, not knowing anything we became each other's best guess. And,
holding your hand is less like exploration and more like discovery. Lady, I
don’t have to study you to be sure. You’re the choice I made before I knew what
the other choices were.
—Shane Koyczan
It's interesting that I found this quote today. I was just wondering this week if love needs to be a multiple choice test . . . as in, do we need to explore all our options before choosing one? Does not exploring all the options make the choice any less special, or any less permanent?
Surprisingly, while I feel the need to research every other choice I make to the max, I feel less and less that way about love. It's pretty clear if someone is taking the time to take the time to get to know you. If you find yourself looking forward to that time and feeling like a larger version of yourself after that time, then I think you can make a best guess and rejoice in the discovery.
quote source: infelicific
—Shane Koyczan
It's interesting that I found this quote today. I was just wondering this week if love needs to be a multiple choice test . . . as in, do we need to explore all our options before choosing one? Does not exploring all the options make the choice any less special, or any less permanent?
Surprisingly, while I feel the need to research every other choice I make to the max, I feel less and less that way about love. It's pretty clear if someone is taking the time to take the time to get to know you. If you find yourself looking forward to that time and feeling like a larger version of yourself after that time, then I think you can make a best guess and rejoice in the discovery.
quote source: infelicific
Monday, February 25, 2013
Kids Get It
I love this Margaret Atwood quote. Partly because I love her writing, which pushes adult readers to consider reality all chopped up and mixed in with fantasy... and partly because I often say something similar: children are better equipped to "get" stories that ask us to suspend our disbelief. They don't even know disbelief yet... they don't have those boundaries. Their imaginative world and the real world exist as one, and there's something pure and joyful about that.
We could all use a little bit of our childhood back when we read. And as we live daily life, for that matter.
We could all use a little bit of our childhood back when we read. And as we live daily life, for that matter.
Children don’t read ‘genres’; they read stories. Below a
certain age, they don’t distinguish between ‘true’ and ‘not true,’ because they
see no reason that a white rabbit shouldn’t possess a pocket watch, that whales
shouldn’t talk, or that sentient beings shouldn’t live on other planets and
travel in spaceships. Science-fiction tropes aren’t read as ‘science fiction’;
they’re read as fiction. And fiction is read as reality. And sometimes reality
lives under the bed and has very large teeth, and it’s no use pretending
otherwise.
—Margaret Atwood
source: Electronic Squid
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